Tips:
1. Read the entire profile before reaching out, please.
2. Loyalty & trust are paramount. If you can't keep your word or even lie by omission, do not waste my time.
3. Be service oriented, even if it's vanilla.
4. If you don't follow the instructions below, don't be shocked if I ignore you or direct you right back here.
5. I am neither a sub nor a switch. Put that completely out of your mind. It's a no from me.
6. I am not your personal kink dispenser. If you want one, buy a service. It's cheaper.
7. If you're seeking ***, fuck all the way off. Nothing will *** me off faster than a grown ass man wanting a sugar momma. Get a damn job.
Career woman seeking ... a toy, a companion, a sub, a boyfriend...the title is negotiable. The level of kink is negotiable.
I have neither the time nor energy to teach you to be a man. I suggest having that figured out prior to making contact.
I often find myself requiring the assistance of a support person. These may include being a driver, an errand runner, a cleaner, a comfort toy, & sometimes just a pillow.
A chronic illness has stolen my capacity for certain physical tasks that need doing, but it hasn't stolen my mind. Not all of it anyway.
I desire someone with an eager attitude of attentiveness, tho this does not mean 24/7.
Your age is of no consequence to me, nor is your height. What matters is how much effort you are willing to put in to be at my side.
A level of intelligence is required, and emotional intelligence is also a necessity.
I am not in search of a mere transaction, but rather a connection that goes beyond the physical.
If sex is all you seek, you will not find that here.
You must be a non-smoker.
Should you wish to contact me, you should include the following:
- Your understanding of attentiveness & how you think it may manifest, or how you wish it to manifest between us
-Your Myers Briggs personality type & why it fits what I desire.
-Your age & what your experience level is with chronic illness whether your own or someone else's
- If you've had this dynamic in a relationship before, how long it lasted, when it ended, & if there have been other relationships in the interim.
You're welcome to include more detail if you wish.
Fair warning. there is a pre-vet questionnaire you will be required to answer before meeting. Meeting is on my timeline. Not yours. I expect you to respect that decision.
IF you pass interrogation, here's a few things I find amusing: prostate play, pegging, balls...I love balls. Whether I'm nice to them or not depends on you. Being licked to orgasm. Breastfeeding [... in an adult way, you sick fuck. Diapers are a hard pass.] Restraint. Edging. Male chastity. Key holding. My hand on your crotch ... just because I feel like it.